Book Report: 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos
Author: Jordan B. Peterson
Date Read: September 2024
Why I Read 12 Rules for Life:
My mother sent me this book, hoping it would help me navigate the chaos surrounding my self-surrender and transition into federal custody. She believed it would offer me guidance and perspective during this challenging time.
What I Learned From 12 Rules for Life:
Reading 12 Rules for Life taught me valuable lessons that will help me prepare for my release and thrive once I am free. Peterson provides 12 practical rules for simplifying the chaos of life through thoughtfulness, honesty, faith, and perseverance. These rules have shaped my beliefs and mindset, giving me tools to lead a more productive and meaningful life.
Summary:
Peterson’s book revolves around the idea that life is inherently chaotic. He introduces 12 rules designed to cut through this chaos and bring peace by focusing on simplicity and personal responsibility. These rules guide readers toward a more peaceful and productive life, both personally and professionally. Here are a few key rules and the impact they’ve had on me:
Rule #1: Stand Up Straight with Your Shoulders Back
Peterson uses this rule to highlight the importance of posture, confidence, and mindset. He discusses how even lobsters experience a chemical change in their brains when they either win or lose a challenge, and suggests that humans are similar. Standing tall with your shoulders back signals to yourself and others that you are capable and confident. I plan to apply this daily, presenting myself as someone worthy of respect, both in prison and when planning for my release.
Rule #2: Treat Yourself Like Someone You Are Responsible for Helping
Peterson argues that we often take better care of others than we do ourselves. He emphasizes the moral obligation to care for ourselves so we can fulfill our role in the world. This chapter inspired me to prioritize my well-being, ensuring I am mentally and physically prepared to succeed after my release.
Rule #3: Make Friends with People Who Want the Best for You
This rule focuses on the importance of surrounding ourselves with people who genuinely support our growth. I’ve reassessed my friendships, realizing I have fewer “good” friends than I thought, but those I do have want the best for me and will hold me accountable.
Rule #4: Compare Yourself to Who You Were Yesterday, Not to Who Someone Else Is Today
This rule encourages us to focus on our own progress, rather than comparing ourselves to others. As I continue my journey, I will reflect on my personal growth and ensure I am moving in the right direction, aiming for a better future for myself and my family.
Rule #5: Do Not Let Your Children Do Anything That Makes You Dislike Them
This chapter emphasizes the importance of discipline in parenting. It highlights the need to set boundaries for children out of love, rather than attempting to be their friend. As a parent, this resonated deeply with me, and I plan to apply these principles to strengthen my relationship with my children.
Rule #6: Set Your House in Perfect Order Before You Criticize the World
Peterson urges us to get our own lives in order—repairing relationships, working hard, and being honest—before passing judgment on the world. This is a principle I live by, and I aim to continue spreading this mindset, both in prison and upon my release.
Rule #7: Pursue What Is Meaningful (Not What Is Expedient)
This chapter encourages living with purpose rather than seeking immediate gratification. I will apply this rule by focusing on meaningful goals that align with my values and contribute to the lives of those around me.
Rule #8: Tell the Truth, or at Least Don’t Lie
This chapter is about living an honest life. I have learned the consequences of lying firsthand and am committed to living truthfully moving forward. Living in truth brings clarity and simplifies life, guiding us toward our true purpose.
Rule #9: Assume the Person You Are Listening to Might Know Something You Don’t
This rule emphasizes the importance of active listening. True listening allows us to grow and learn from others. I will practice this skill, as it will help me become a better person and leader.
Rule #10: Be Precise in Your Speech
Peterson encourages us to be clear and intentional with our words. This chapter has inspired me to vocalize my goals and plans clearly, keeping myself accountable and focused on my desired outcomes.
Rule #11: Do Not Bother Children When They Are Skateboarding
This chapter is about resilience and toughness, particularly for men. It reminded me that growth often comes from pushing limits, and I am becoming stronger and more resolved in my commitment to my family and my future.
Rule #12: Pet a Cat When You Encounter One on the Street
This rule is about appreciating the small moments of joy in life. I’ve learned to recognize and cherish the little blessings, and I plan to make the most of these moments with my loved ones after my release.
Conclusion:
12 Rules for Life provides valuable teachings for anyone looking to simplify their life and lead with purpose. I plan to use the principles from this book to prepare myself for a successful life after prison.
How 12 Rules for Life Will Contribute to My Success Upon Release:
I will continue to use the lessons from Jordan Peterson’s book to grow personally while in prison. These rules offer a framework for aligning my life with God’s purpose and will help me become a b
